This rather long Musing covers experiences from my trip to Washington DC to lobby Congress organized by the National Center for Transgender Equality.
The first part highlights an exchange between myself and a friend who, (like me), is MtF but unlike me is deeply stealth. She is a beautiful, intelligent, and very succesful woman with much at stake.
I had sent out one of my periodic Email flyers announcing my upcoming gigs here in the L.A. area and I proudly included my lobbying trip to Washington D.C.
Following afterward are what I hope to be responses from anyone willing to come forward, (send me an Email), as well as my own take on the trip itself.
On 4/3/08, Jennifer Leitham wrote:
Hi Everybody,
It’s a very busy time for me, teaching at home and at CSULB, lots of gigs with great bands, some great Jazz Festivals this summer, and playing a private show at the Dinah Shore Weekend in Palm Springs with my trio. Best of all we play two great rooms next week! Great!!!!
For all of you who have asked about the trio performing on the Westside, here’s your answer. When it rains it pours! 
We’re returning to the Westin LAX on Wednesday, and I’m leaving on a short trip to Washington DC, (right after our Friday date at Il Moro), to lobby Congress. My energy level has never been higher!
The Jennifer Leitham Trio
Jennifer Leitham left handed bass and vocals
Josh Nelson piano
Randy Drake drums
is appearing
Wednesday April 9
-6 to 10pm-
WESTIN LOS ANGELES AIRPORT HOTEL
5400 W. Century Blvd.,
Los Angeles, CA
(310) 216-5858, Ext. 7225
http://www.in-housemusic.com
Friday April 11
8:30 to midnight
Il Moro (pronounced ILL MORO)
11400 Olympic Blvd. (three blocks West of the 405, at Purdue)
Los Angeles, CA 90064
(310) 575-3530
http://www.ilmoro.com
Hope you can make it!
If you are receiving these messages in a region remote to the greater Los Angeles area and do not wish to be pestered would you please respond and give me your location? If you’re local and want the madness to stop just tell me to buzz off! (Reply with “unsubscribe” in the subject).
I apologize to all my friends in Happy Valley!
As always, check the Itinerary Section of my website for a listing of all upcoming dates. The Musings section has a couple of new posts and the Media section has links to new videos and radio interviews
Please come to hear us and if you do, say hi! Stop and be friendly!
Thank you!
Jennifer
XXXX wrote:
Jennifer:
I hope to be there on Wednesday. Now, what’s all this about lobbying Congress? Tell me about that, please!
Wow, you sound busy. That’s great! Make tons of money!
Ciao!
XXXX
Jennifer wrote:
Dear XXXX,
Hope you can be there!!!!!!
As to the lobbying, I’m going to take part in the Transgender Lobby Day for the NCTE. (National Center for Transgender Equality).
Sen Kennedy is about to introduce the Emplyee Non Discrimination Act to the Senate that has been stripped of protections for gender identity. We’re trying to show the members of Congress that we’re normal people and that we vote in greater numbers than they suspect.
I posted a link on my page after the “More Light on Transgender” Musing.
See you Wednesday!
xoxo,
Jennifer
XXXX wrote:
Dear Jennifer,
Good luck tilting at windmills!
It’s a lost cause, at this point. Without the support of the HRC, (Human Rights Comission), there’s no political cover for the politicians. And I hope you’re taking with you only mainstream-looking, well-passing people. Some of our fellow travelers scare the bejeezus out of them politicians. They see some drag queen-looking person, and they just imagine an ad during their next campaign showing that person, with the narrator saying, “Senator Soandso voted to have this sexual deviant take care of your preschool children.”
Cheers!
XXXX
Jennifer wrote:
Dear XXXX,
I’ve blogged about it. I’ve lobbied my Congressman here at home, done just about all that I can as an individual.
I can only say this: Stop hiding!!!! Let them see you in person!
One of the reasons that we’re misrepresented in the political world is that it seems that the majority of us who are willing to be public are individuals that don’t pass or don’t care to. We “scare the bejeezus out of them politicians”! We have to educate “them politicians” to the fact that we are just trying to live our lives in a positive, constructive manner and that we have every right to the same protections as all other human beings.
I’m going (as are many others this year), to show that we are capable of being “normal” and/or at the very least, acceptable. If we don’t make the effort, things will stay the same.
We’re going to pose on the Capitol steps on April 15 and this year we’re going to be double the size of last year’s group. I’m going to talk to Congressional staffers with a clear, level head, and educate them about my life. The failure of the trans-inclusive ENDA and the betrayal of our political allies have made me realize that standing on the sideline is not an option.
I’m tired of being dictated to by Barney Franks and his ilk, the HRC, and the religious right.
Even if we fail I will feel that the attempt will have advanced our standing.
xoxo
Jennifer
April 3, 2008
Here is a link to the National Center for Transgender Equality website:
http://nctequality.org/
Here is a response from another participant who lobbied Congress with me for The National Center for Transgender Equality. When asked if she would prefer to remain anonymous she emphatically told me to use her name and Email address:
Wed, 16 Apr 2008 14:19:52 -0400
From:”Roxanne Edwards”
To:jennifer@jenniferleitham.com
Subject: Hi
Jennifer,
It was so nice to meet you yesterday during Lobby Day. It was my second time on the Hill, but I have gone to the state level three other times. It’s so empowering to take a stand for what you believe. It is also a shame we rarely see the elected official, but that takes a lot more persistence and planning, plus you have to have something worth their time ($$$ or votes) to get their attention. I was glad to hear you were going to be able to sit down with your representative. How did it go?
I read your April 16th blog posting of the exchange with your friend XXXX. I know a lot of closeted M2F’s, but no truly stealthy ones, given my own visibility/leadership in the local trans community.
It is not smart to be seen with those of us who are out if they are afraid to identify as trans at all. I am sympathetic. It is a lot like the civil rights movement and the early gay rights movement.
People had to chose how much risk they were able to bear in being identified with the ’cause’. But the courageous ones made a stand. Although I feel for your friend, there comes a time when “enough is enough”.
Those of us who have become activists can become embittered when so many still hide, because the very reason they have to hide now is because the majority have been hiding all along!!
Obviously the down side of being outed is the risk of losing something important/critical to the closeted and stealthy ones. It may be their career, family, physical safety, whatever. A thoughtful person can’t argue that the risk is not real, and feel sympathy. But self preservation can be a hollow victory. Ask Jews who stood by early in Hitler’s rise to power. I think they wish now they had been more forceful in resisting the growing tyranny.
If a stealth person lives daily in fear of being outed into society, because society is less than understanding or downright cruel, what does that say? I am not comfortable with pressuring people into doing something that they do not want to do. But I am not willing to take them entirely off the hook. As long as we remain 1% visible and 99% hidden, our credibility as a segment of our culture remains suspect. The fewer our visible numbers, the more ‘justified’ the majority is to marginalize and/or disrespect us as a perverted fringe-of-the-fringe.
Breaking this cycle takes Martin Luther King or Gandhi-like vision and courage. I am only part of a whole. I do not believe I have the right to merely guard my precious turf. I belong to a greater community and that
brings responsibility.
(Unfortunately, division, disrespect and disagreement within the TG community exists, much to my dismay. The trans spectrum includes a lot of variety of issues, and many do not see how they connect to the larger whole.)
We need leaders, followers, organizers, visionaries, artists, planners, writers, entertainers, role models, athletes, politicians, money people… and Lynn Conway has compiled a record just such a group. However, we are still so disconnected. So many transfolk are still struggling with private life issues that it is a wonder we get anywhere. I think it is testimony to the real nature of how diverse and large our community really is when you see how varied and prevalent are the news reports about efforts to pass local ordinances. The percentage of the ’straight’ population that is politically active is pretty tiny. If you interpolate our efforts into the same percentage, we are much larger than most realize.
Whew. Sorry. I did not mean to get on my soap box!
Anyway, I appreciated seeing you there, doing your part. Thank you for being visible, and approachable. Never having had even a light brush with fame, I cannot imagine how different it must be to have strangers walk up to you and act like they know you, when you are totally in the dark about who they are.
I loved the subheading on your card : ‘Sinistral Music’. I am a musician of very small talent (guitar, acoustic, Ovation 6-string since 1971, even had a band for a few years in college, but since growing out my nails 7 years ago have not figured out how to compensate!) and right handed.
I appreciate the distinction you have as “sinistral”. (How unfortunate that the pejorative of sinister has the same root). My 19 year old daughter is sinistral and I saw her struggles up close.
On top of it all, you have attained such high regard among your professional peers.
Doc Severinson! Mel Torme! How cool is that!
Anyway, so nice to meet you. Anytime you make it to DC, love to see you perform.
Best,
Roxanne
Here is my take on my participation in Lobby Day:
Lobby Day was an amazing experience!
I have been empowered in a manner that I never thought possible.
We Americans live in a wonderful country. We make it even more wonderful when we participate in our representative democracy.
The National Center for Transgender Equality is a top notch organization, they do our cause great service, we have much to be proud of.
I arrived one day early in order to visit with my sister who lives and works in Washington DC. I rarely see my family, and it meant a great deal to me to spend time with her.
The first day of the gathering was an all day training session run by Mara Keisling and her staff with the NCTE at the American Federation of Teachers building. They educated the over 200 participants about the issues that we face, covering mostly the progress of ENDA and the Real ID act. One of our goals was to persuade Congress not to act on the version of ENDA that is waiting to be introduced in the Senate. It has been stripped of gender identity employment protections. The hope is that a gender identity inclusive ENDA will be introduced when the Executive Branch and Congress are refreshed with more enlightened occupants.
We were also educated about the pitfalls of the Real ID act regarding those who change their identity documentation. There are many different ways of changing gender marking documents and they vary from state to state. The bill in it’s present form will create a quagmire for our community.
Mara and her staff did a wonderful job of informing us and yet keeping the activities light hearted and interesting.
In the evening we gathered at the National Press Club for a reception. There were honorees and speeches and some socializing but best of all my sister was with me and she was able to see first hand that I’m not so unusual. There are some outstanding citizens in our tribe, and I’m proud to be a part of it. We had a wonderful time together.
Lobbying began bright and early on April 15th. It was a very chilly morning as we gathered in Taft Park next to the Capitol building. Masen Davis of the Transgender Law Center gave a heartfelt speech and several participants spoke of their experiences. We gathered together for a picture and then we were off.
We separated into state delegations, then paired off in twos to see the Congressional representatives from our home districts. My partner was Dana, a brilliant young scientist who works at JPL. I took the lead for my district, she took the lead for hers. We met first with my Congressman’s staff member Philip Tahtakran for about an hour. It was very cordial, Rep Adam Schiff is an ally, he was a cosponsor of the original inclusive ENDA. Best of all, I was invited to have breakfast the following morning with Rep Schiff himself!
Our next meeting was with Representative David Dreier’s Chief of Staff. It was a very interesting meeting, and the political workings of Washington manifested before my eyes. I sensed that we were actually informing someone who was well meaning, but needed to be told about our stories. I am hopeful that our visit will bear fruit in the future. We had a very thoughtful, meaningful discussion of about 90 minutes. From what we were told by the NCTE, the best case scenario would have been ten to fifteen minutes at best.
After that meeting we met the rest of the lobbyists in the cafeteria under the Capitol. Our government eats very well!
As we were passing between the House and Senate office buildings and the Capitol on the underground tram both Dana and I remarked on the truly remarkable experience we were having. We noticed the tours full of wide eyed people and remembered our own experiences of visiting the Capitol with our school groups. I used to travel to Washington DC with my high school chorale and sing for the Senators and Congressmen.
Now here we were participating in the process! Best of all we were putting our best feet forward! We were not being wallflowers. We were looking our government representatives in the eye and we were on equal footing. We were serving the greater good.
After lunch we went out again with five members of the California delegation and made several unannounced stops at Congressional offices. The day culminated in a scheduled meeting in the chambers of the Speaker of the House, Rep Nancy Pelosi.
Masen Davis took the lead and we met with her top two aides. Again the workings of politics were quite self evident. It seemed that the Speaker wasn’t going to do our work for us or help educate the unknowing. It’s up to us to get the votes to pass a gender identity inclusive ENDA. As it should be. All the more reason why we need more of us to participate at every level of government to let the powers that be know that we are deserving of the same rights as the rest of the population.
The highlight of my lobbying experience was my breakfast with my Congressman. I am one of the lucky lobbyists, my representative is a very enlightened man. It was a most sociable occasion, each of the invitees was encouraged to present their program to Rep Schiff, but it was done in a very relaxed, casual manner. My musical career was an excellent ice breaker, several of his staff members are musicians. We talked about our families and our pets. It was a wonderful experience.
I returned from Washington a better human being and very hopeful for the future.
Kudos to the NCTE! Keep up the good work!
Jennifer Leitham
April 19, 2008